My nephews are 5 and 4 and we bring a stroller for both of them. They enjoy walking but towards the end of the day/night they get tired and love sitting in a stroller relaxing. Other wise we end up holding them and that's not fun for us haha. So if you think she would use it I say bring it!!
I have a friend that is a club 33 CM and according to him they just completed their new memberships and the people they were contacting have been on a waiting list since 2005. So I'd say the best thing to do is put your name on the waiting list and wait patiently; and I think it's like $30,000 to join and something like $5,000 annually.
I've done it once and we were picked. We were just standing around up top and then cast never who was the captain that day came downstairs and asked if we wanted to join him. I think you need to have a small group though because the wheel room isn't very big.
I thought it could have been a little better. It was a lot of fun though. They had a band playing all kids of different music on one stage and then in the house of cards they had these other guys doing stuff but I'm not sure what because I wasn't really paying attention haha. They have like three places where you can buy drinks and then where Flynn's used to be its a new arcade with Alice in wonde More...