I'm really confused by a lot of the things and people I see here sometimes. There are folks that do so much for this app, by weeding out problematic people, posts and drama. They regularly update wait times and add quality to the lounge, and because they don't ooze sickly sweet and disingenuous comments on every post, they're called bullies. This is the internet. Not everyone is going to be the same, or like the same things, or think the same things are funny, or like everyone. That's just the way it is. It's asinine to expect that. I have been called names here. I've been called unfunny, mean, rude, a bully. None of those things are true. There are very few people in here, that truly know who I am. Who really know what makes me tick, or what makes me cry, or what breaks my heart, who I love, what makes me happy. That goes for most of us. It's wrong to assume and make judgements and then call me or anyone names and cry how I'm the bully. It happens often and the difference is, I didn't go and leave negative reviews because somebody was rude to me. We are all responsible for our actions. Period. I'm so sick of the people that defend the few that choose to attack MW because they are not ready and are incapable of being on an online forum. I'm sick of those people that defend the few that leave bad reviews and essentially point the finger at the rest of us and say it's our fault. No it isn't! It's the fault of the people leaving bad reviews. I'm not going to change who I am, because somebody might take my joke wrong, or read something the wrong way, or they don't like sarcasm and they don't like friends joking around with each other. Nobody should. There are folks on here that I am not a fan of, who's humor I don't like, who's constant posting I don't like. So what. I don't take to the app store to bring down MW with bad reviews. I rarely see any regular MWer be mean to anyone else in here. I see, on a daily basis, people congratulating new births, celebrating new jobs, wishing perfect strangers happy birthday and happy anniversary, praying when someone needs it, offering advice, giving answers to questions, giving away RAKs, sharing memories, laughing, making friendships and loving all things Disney. The people who leave bad reviews, because they don't like a joke or took something wrong is childish, insane and ridiculous at best, and the people who defend them are just the same. Shame on you for defending the people who try and tear down what we have here. Shame on you for helping them in their efforts to sabotage what we have here. What we should do, is rally together as a community when someone tries to bring down what we have, not defend the few who want it destroyed, and point fingers and assign unfounded blame. I'd love to see that happen, but it won't, if you people who want to protect the few that want to ruin the lounge, continue to encourage their behavior, by coddling them. We can't go around lashing out, every time someone does something we don't like. The people leaving negative reviews in retaliation is not something that should be rewarded by blaming others for the actions they took. I don't understand those of you who defend such vindictive behavior. You are as guilty as they are when you do. It's time for us regular users to stand together in this, and protect what we have here, and not allow a few bad apples and their protectors destroy this amazing community, its spirit and OUR lounge. And really. If it was that horrible, the bad reviews would be rampant. They aren't. The positive reviews far outweigh the negative reviews. And that is my two cents worth. -
DisneyFanZoe
1096.8 #75 2:51AM