Hi all. So I wanted to update you. I had a complication and I got to come home with a catheter which will stay in until Tuesday. I am home now.
Also, yesterday while in surgery my sister called my friends to update on my status. While doing so one of my friends made an awful and hurtful comment about me and my illness to my sister. She said it was so awful and wouldn't tell me what was said. My sister told my husband and he confronted my friend about it. He said it was uncalled for and very inappropriate. He said she didn't apologize and made excuses. I trust my sister and husband when they tell me that I don't need to know the details. My husband then blocked her from my Facebook so that I couldn't see the messages from her. I'm sad to lose a friend I've had for nearly 20 years. I don't know what to do.
OMG Jackie! How could a "friend" say anything negative after a person has surgery!?! That's the craziest thing I've ever heard. Obviously, she wasn't the friend that you thought she was. You take it easy and don't "sweat the small stuff"! Put your energy into getting better so you can have fun with your adorable daughters and husband! I've been thinking of you all week! So sorry to hear about the complication - but it will be better soon. REST! If you post that you're doing housework, I'm going to call your doctor and have him put you back into the hospital (said with lots of love and concern for you :)...). Take care - sending hugs and pixie dust across the ocean! - msdizmaui
519.0 #224 12:10AM
Thank you MDM, my sister said it was one of the worst things she has ever heard anyone say. My husband and I have no secrets and he said that I don't need to know. For now I am not going to focus on her and just focus on getting better.
Why is it so hard to allow others to get/do things for me? My husband is willing and capable, and I feel guilty for asking for anything. I need to work on that. - Mrs.mouse 420.9 #306 1:09AM
Yes you do! Husbands were put on this earth to do things for their wives...lol! And I'm sure that it makes him happy to do things for you. Wouldn't you feel the same way if it were reversed? I say milk it for as long as you can!!! - msdizmaui 519.0 #224 10:05PM
Mrs.Mouse I am glad the surgery is over. You take it easy & let everyone spoil you! Listen to your Dr. & your hubby. Even if you are feeling better before the time you are ok'd to do something just wait & heal completely. It is interesting when you go through something hard in life you will find out who your true friends are this person just showed her true colors. Don't let her upset you she was never a real friend. It's her loss♥ Hope you are feeling better soon. Know we all love you. - sewgirl
340.5 #432 5:37PM
How awful! I hope for now you can just put her out of your mind and concentrate on yourself and your healing. She's not worth allowing her space in your mind right now. Let your family and your real friends love and help you during this time. Hang in there! - D55CR
245.4 #1051 9:13AM
This makes me so mad! Ugh, what is wrong with people?!? Maybe she is having some issues and will get her head on straight and figure it out but sounds like you're better off without her! - LisaMouse7531
409.1 #318 3:11AM