371.6 #613 (DL Qual #382

Dec 4, 2012 2:33 PM  Disneyland Talk Land
Hi everybody! Today my wonderful husband woke me up to tell me that he got a hotel room for our family to stay in on Thursday night. We will go Thursday evening, and Friday. I so appreciate this because our family has been through so much over the past year and a half. I mentioned in September that I was pregnant. I have been on bed rest. Unfortunately, last week I experienced a miscarriage which included two trips in the ambulance. My heart is completely broken. When I read posts from other MWers who are going through trying times it makes me think of others, and appreciate all that God has blessed my life with. I seriously Appreciate the blessing of going to Disneyland. While it doesn't take the pain away, it does ease it. Thank you God for my wonderful husband, and kids, thank you that things aren't as bad as they could possibly be, thank you for hope, thank you for Disneyland--a great escape, and yes, thank you for MW! May God bless, and comfort you all!!!

For Christmas last year my husband gave me a small ring with three small diamonds that represent my two kids on earth and my baby in heaven. Give yourself time to grieve. Waves of sadness may come over you and even come at weird times. The intensity will lessen but don't try to bury it. Focus on the love of your family and the blessings of God. Enjoy your time at the parks and create some wonderful memories. - RadiatorSprings4Ever  1566.1 #107 9:14PM
Wow, I really appreciate your post. What a great way to remember. We might steal your idea- it seems so comforting. It is a great way to include the baby into our family. Thanks again for your encouragement! - 7mouskedoodles  371.6 #613 10:02PM
Sorry for your loss...glad you and your family get to go have some fun - TiggerBelle  515.6 #408 2:50PM
So sorry for your loss! I am so glad your husband is trying to take you away for a little while! - lillysmamma  5.7 #16686 2:54PM
@cdeley, and lillysmamma: thanks for the encouragement. My husband and children have been so thoughtful even through their heartbreak. I am looking forward to spending time with them as we all heal together. Thanks! - 7mouskedoodles  371.6 #613 2:58PM
I'm so sorry for the pain your going through. I'm glad your able to spend some time as a family to begin the healing process. Big hugs, you'll be in my prayers (big hug) - Luvvdisney  384.3 #584 2:56PM
@Luvvdisney: thanks very much. - 7mouskedoodles  371.6 #613 2:59PM
I'm very sorry to hear about your loss. I hope that the comfort you will get from spending time with your family will help ease your feelings. - rbeezy  703.0 #273 3:00PM
@rbreezy: sincerely, thanks. (One of my fav MWers- you have always been friendly. You commented on my very first post, I never forgot it!) - 7mouskedoodles  371.6 #613 3:03PM
Aw, thanks :) - rbeezy  703.0 #273 3:18PM
I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope you have a wonderful time with your family at Disneyland. - leftmyheartinwonderland  359.9 #644 3:03PM
@❤wonderland: thank you - 7mouskedoodles  371.6 #613 3:04PM
I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope your trip helps to comfort and heal you & your family. Sending you (((hugs))) and pixie dust. ✨✨✨✨ - LBChica  2437.4 #59 3:15PM
@LaChica,MinnieMouseWife, Hendizl,Mrs.Schnooks: I am so grateful for your thoughtful comments!thank you much. - 7mouskedoodles  371.6 #613 3:39PM
❤❤❤ - LBChica  2437.4 #59 4:01PM
Very sorry to hear this!! I hope you have a wonderful time in DL with your family!! - MinnieMousewife  914.1 #201 3:18PM
Sorry to hear that happened. I hope you have great time with your family at the parks. At least the parks will help get your mind off things hope you start to feel better. - Hendizl  2821.9 #46 3:20PM
So sorry for your loss. What a wonderful thing for your husband to do for your entire family. I hope you have a wonderful time. - Cinderella_Schnooks  3370.7 #42 3:27PM
I am sorry for your loss. I know what you mean when you said that Disneyland eases the pain. When I lost my mother, I traveled to Disneyland from Utah because I needed the escape and it really helped seeing people happy. - widowtallan  288.1 #989 3:30PM
@widowtallan: I can relate to the escape. Disneyland was always a place to go for fun, recently it has become a place of escape. I know that God has a plan, either to be grateful for our children, to have one more, or have the opportunity to adopt a baby, who knows? But I really am trying to leave it in Gods hands since I am powerless, and it all is unknown. Thank you for your comment! - 7mouskedoodles  371.6 #613 3:37PM
I am so sorry! Take the time you need to heal from this. What a wonderful husband you've got. Take it easy, and enjoy your visit to the parks with your family. - MeridaFan  4243.7 #34 3:36PM
@meridafan: yes, I do have a wonderful husband. He has been a rock for me even in his pain. I so appreciate your encouragement! Thanks - 7mouskedoodles  371.6 #613 3:42PM
I am so sorry for your loss... I hope your family has a wonderful time making happy memories. I have been seeing a lot of sad news in the lounge and in my life. My sister today found out her baby does not have a heart beat so she will have surgery tomorrow to abort. Although I've been going through a stressful time finding a job, I am so grateful for the things I have and the supportive people in my life. - ZeeAlice  621.7 #328 3:45PM
@ZeeAlice: oh, no so sorry about your sisters baby. Didn't we comment on MW about her having a baby, and about me being on bed rest a couple of months ago? My heart breaks for her. It is so hard. About a year an a half ago we saw our baby, and heartbeat during a routine ultrasound, but it was an ectopic, we had to go home to explain the situation to our kids, then I had emergency surgery. We never got over it. That is why we would love to have one more. I grieve for you and your sister. Thanks for your comment. - 7mouskedoodles  371.6 #613 3:56PM
God bless her with caring and supportive friends and family and hospital staff. That is not an easy surgery. Hugs! - Darlingwendi  1222.7 #140 3:57PM
@ZeeAlice: maybe Slotherini will post, he always makes me laugh, and we could use some cheering up now, right? - 7mouskedoodles  371.6 #613 3:58PM
We talked about your bed rest, but my sister's pregnancy is pretty new. She is actually doing IVF because her husband is now in a wheel chair from a motorcycle accident a year and a half to go. She has quite a few fertilized eggs so they will keep trying. It's just all the doctor visits she has to go to that drags her down. I've been helping out a lot today with the crazy kids and letting her rest. I think my brother in law is more sad. This will be his first. and thanks @Darlingwendi! Slotherini always makes my days better. He his so ridiculous. I'm sure he will post a funny when he comes home from work ;) - ZeeAlice  621.7 #328 9:33PM
@ZeeAlice: I didn't realize she had other kids to care for too. You are doing what my mom has done for me. (Watching our kids sometimes). What a help! Hopefully after her surgery tomorrow she will begin to heal. I hope she has more success the next time around. You sound like a special sis! I'll be praying for you all during this trying time. - 7mouskedoodles  371.6 #613 9:46PM
And God bless you 7...my heart aches for you and your husband and children. 5 and 6 years later I'm still moved to tears when I slow down and focus on the 2 I'll meet someday. Hugs! - Darlingwendi  1222.7 #140 4:00PM
Darlingwendi: I share your same sentiments! - 7mouskedoodles  371.6 #613 4:05PM
Oh sweetie I wish I could erase your pain. (((Hugs))) - PrincessDuckie  904.9 #202 4:02PM
@princessDuckie: thanks, and I wish your situation will work out soon too! hang i. There! I have been praying for your family, please post updates! - 7mouskedoodles  371.6 #613 4:07PM
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. Please enjoy every moment in the parks. - disnylvr  5.8 #16568 4:02PM
@disnylvr: thanks so much. - 7mouskedoodles  371.6 #613 4:08PM
I am so sorry for your loss. Enjoy your time at the park - susiet23  151.2 #2699 4:10PM
@susiet23, and HBMom: thank you so very much. - 7mouskedoodles  371.6 #613 4:26PM
So sorry for your loss! I hope you get to relax some and have a wonderful time at the parks! - HBMom  13.7 #9059 4:13PM
Oh sweetie I am so truly sorry for your loss. I had no idea you were going through all that. I'm so glad you have a wonderful, supportive husband and family. I hope that your Disney trip and the quality time with your family will help to ease the pain in your heart. Tons if love, prayers, and pixie dust heading your way.❤🙏✨ - RCmom  5235.3 #21 4:18PM
Thanks RC. I really appreciate it. I hope your family is doing better after your loss. Still, we are so blessed, aren't we? - 7mouskedoodles  371.6 #613 4:24PM
Incredibly blessed! I too am so lucky to have an amazing, supportive husband and wonderful family. - RCmom  5235.3 #21 4:45PM
I am so sorry :/ you are blessed to have such a wonderful husband and children. enjoy your well deserved nights stay and have a blast at Disneyland. in my thoughts, x❤x❤ - misschurro  6361.2 #17 4:20PM
Thanks Churro, yes I have a great support! I hope you are doing well. I will give you a tap! Thanks for the encouragement. - 7mouskedoodles  371.6 #613 4:25PM
So sorry for ur loss my thoughts and prayers will be with u guys ((hugs)) - princessVanessa  384.3 #585 4:40PM
I'm so sorry for your loss. What an amazing husband! Love and pixie dust! - HasAnyoneSeenMyGlassSlipper  690.8 #284 4:40PM
oh no! so sorry for your loss :0( hope you and your awesome ohana have an amazing day at disneyland!!! - OhanaPhoto  5120.1 #24 5:59PM
So sorry for your loss and hoping DL can ease your heavy heart. - NickDoubleyew  1083.2 #168 6:07PM
So sorry for your loss! My husband & daughter got me through my miscarriage 5 years ago. The pain never goes away, but it does get easier over time. My husband took my daughter & I away for the weekend after mine & it helped a lot. My heart goes out to you. Have a wonderful time with your family! - GrandCircleTour  362.3 #637 6:17PM
@toniasmith, MightyWhitey,OhanaPhoto,Cinderelly25, and Princessvanessa : I sincerely thank you all for your encouraging words. I am overwhelmed by everyone's response. MightyWhitey, and OhanaPhoto, I have appreciated your kindness during my time on MW. Thanks all! - 7mouskedoodles  371.6 #613 6:38PM
that's what christmas is all about :0) you are awesome! - OhanaPhoto  5120.1 #24 9:19PM
My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family in this trying time. Thank God you are able to find some peace and solace. - HpplyEvrAftr  223.0 #1694 9:11PM
Disneyland is a great place to be able to get away for a bit. I am so very sorry for your loss, but am happy to hear you have a supportive family. - Linzee  1188.1 #146 9:23PM
@linzee, and HpplyEvr: thank you for your kind comments. - 7mouskedoodles  371.6 #613 9:49PM
I'm so sorry for your loss. I've been through a miscarriage myself and its not something I would ever wish on anyone. Hopefully a Disney day will be a nice way to cheer you and your family up. - lostgirl7988  697.8 #278 10:09PM
I'm so sorry. Sending prayers your way. Have an awesome escape from reality to Disneyland! - BrerRabbit  360.8 #642 10:11PM
I am so sorry for your loss. Prayers for you and your family. I hope this trip will bring happy memories for your family. - IBelieveInFairies  707.0 #271 10:21PM
I am so sorry for your loss-I pray the magic of Disneyland will bring your hearts comfort and ease the pain for at least the day! lots of love and prayers sent your way ✨❤✨ - missyandpaul  285.8 #1004 2:42AM
I'm so sorry for your families loss and your heartache. I pray for your healing. Blessings to you as your family. I hope you have a wonderful trip, thank goodness for your dear husband. 😊 - MousekaNinja  422.4 #524 2:49AM
I'm so sorry for your loss. I myself sadly had 2 miscarriages last yr and it's still hard on me but I'm so thankful for my lil boy and I pray that God will bless me 1 more time. I hope you and your family enjoy your trip and I pray the Lord will easy the heartache you're going through. - dumbbunny  627.2 #324 4:12AM
I am so sorry for your loss. - LaPearleNoir  1789.4 #94 6:11AM
My best friends mom had a still born in between her two oldest children. To celebrate her life, they planted a rose bush in the front of their house. I have never seen a rose bush that blooms all year round, but this plant always has the most beautiful flowers I have ever seen. I'm sorry for your loss and I hope you can find a way to celebrate the life of your lost one. - jamielynn  163.3 #2519 7:02AM
I'm so sorry for your loss. I know how incredibly hard it is, I had a miscarriage the day after Christmas (we announced our pregnancy Christmas Day) it was without a doubt the hardest thin I had experienced but two months later found out we were pregnant again and my newest princess was born three weeks ago! God has a plan and will get you through it! Hang in there! - Queenof2princesses  259.6 #1262 7:09AM
God Bless you. Congrats on your new baby! - MeridaFan  4243.7 #34 7:30AM
So sorry for your loss. I had multiple miscarriages, and I know how that loss status in your heart. I hope you have friends that you can talk with and who will support you. - PrincessKristin  780.8 #240 7:41AM

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