For those of you shy folks out there. MouseWaiters are the easiest and nicest folks to meet. Yeah, there's some solid friendships out there but nobody is so cliquish that they won't say hello and include you in some fun conversations. That was one of things I looked forward to hosting the studio trip - finally meeting all these newer names on the app. I made a point during lunch of going table to table and, without exception, every single person was friendly and fun to chat with. With MW, you don't need an invite. Just be yourself, don't take things too seriously, you'll be having fun in no time. The end.
People can be there own worst enemies and make assumptions that are not true just be yourself and people will love you for you!!! - Rob512
755.1 #134 8:23PM
Well, *I* heard that you like apples. 😜 - bluefairy 627.1 #174 8:37PM
I like apples, but I love, Love!!! - Rob512 755.1 #134 8:53PM
They like me they really do like me.....and cut! 🎬 - disneygal 366.6 #379 9:15PM
I wanna ride on the back of that bike! 😁 - bluefairy 627.1 #174 8:36PM
Did somebody say bike? Yay! - VeloMouseGirl 549.7 #202 8:41PM
More like a wallflower - DesertMouse 825.6 #110 9:01PM
Stay away from H3D. He's bad news 😉 - LilSterner 2656.0 #17 9:11PM
I somehow missed you yesterday. :( Yes, meeting H3D was on my bucket list. - Alicewhoareyou 536.0 #209 9:11PM
you didnt miss much Alice.. - PrinceTeaJack 786.3 #119 9:31PM
tell 'm large Marge sent you - tuesday737 1076.5 #78 9:35PM
Strawberry, he f'n touched you? - SupremeLeader 393.9 #339 9:41PM
It was on a night like this. Worst accident I ever seen. - Experiment818 1598.0 #47 9:44PM
******When he smiles he looks like Chandler Bing from F•R•I•E•N•D•S! - MadameLeota 936.1 #93 10:01PM
Lol Strawguy, I was in a hurry to take another shower! And then I get to the room and Kat had already sent down our bags so I had to call them back up to our room lol. My back was hurting pretty bad yesterday so I didn't go around and try and say hi to everyone like I usually do at these big events, but it was nice to be able to stop and say hi :-) - HotDiggityDogDaddy 1112.2 #74 10:20PM
H3D, do you have Howie Mandel issues? 👊 - Minnis2Society 360.0 #389 10:52PM
And I meant that in a funny way. Sounds kinda strange when I re read it! - Minnis2Society 360.0 #389 10:53PM
The mind plays tricks on you. You play tricks back! It's like you're unraveling a big cable-knit sweater that someone keeps knitting and knitting and knitting and knitting and knitting and knitting and knitting... - Alicewhoareyou 536.0 #209 11:03PM
At my first meetup I was nervous and spent more time on my phone than talking. That first metup was awkward for me but without it I would not have made so many wonderful friends. 👦🐻🐷, Chrissykins, Dave, Mimimouse, MrMimimouse, Zooter, FMP, Shangz,818, and so many more. The hardest thing about making new friends is finding something in common, at MW we know what we have in common.. - DesertMouse
825.6 #110 8:37PM
the bamboo whisperer is wise - toph 2398.6 #26 8:55PM
Or just start with Meat Baby and Roll...word is they don't bite back. - toph
2398.6 #26 8:58PM
Well said E818! And I can also vouch for the wonderfulness of E818, Dahula and Shangz. They took me shopping and we'd never met before. :) If I wouldn't have put myself out there, I would have missed out on meeting so many great people. - Missshelly
690.3 #147 9:31PM
Wait where's the vinylmation to this?? - PrinceTeaJack
786.3 #119 8:10PM
Ha! Good point! What were you thinking 818?! 😂 - Duchess_SMK 3282.5 #11 9:36PM
Thinking and the day after the meetup do not mix. - Experiment818 1598.0 #47 10:42PM
Mr💙 drug me to my first meetup. I say at a table and didn't talk to anyone. MY OWN Fault! LOL! But the next time I followed Shangz around and he thought I was a stalker! Thank god I did now we share a husband. I have no idea where I was going with this I am sleep stupid. - Mrsblue
692.4 #145 8:52PM
I still remember that like it was yesterday! And the rest is history! Whoop! Whoop! 😃😃 - Dahulagirl 1053.2 #81 9:10PM
I was SO scared to go to my first meetup!! I went by myself and didn't know anybody, and it was really scary but I will never regret it (and I'm really shy, it was very unlike me to go meet strangers all by myself) :) I've made some awesome friends that I hope to know for many years to come. It took a few more meetups to get to the friendship point, but you will get there if you just try. - DaisyBell
668.4 #155 8:55PM
And where, prey tell, were you THIS past weekend? Said hi to the Mr. - Experiment818 1598.0 #47 9:22PM
I, my friend, was way up north in da bay, where I now reside. I couldn't make it down this weekend :( and was super butthurt about it all weekend :P - DaisyBell 668.4 #155 9:28PM
Missed you this weekend doll! 😘 - Duchess_SMK 3282.5 #11 9:39PM
I missed you too SweetMomma!! :) I'll be back this summer, I hope to see you! - DaisyBell 668.4 #155 9:56PM
My first meet up was before MW and no one was there and I felt so alone and left out. Now, I am bitter - SupremeLeader
393.9 #339 9:05PM
I'm not normally a shy person, but I get nervous at every MW meet up I go to. It's just a vulnerable feeling, but you just have to get a little out of your comfort zone. Yes, many of the people here know each other, but at each meet up I've been to, there have also been people that are newer and don't know a lot of people. I get nervous sometimes even seeing people I've already met! You just have to take a chance, and also reach out to others that are new and might be feeling awkward, too. - PrincessKristin
774.5 #126 9:59PM
Tru dat! I totally agree with you! The shyness will keep on Rollin everytime- but for the small amount of meet ups I have gone to I always meet great people! - Mouseketeer.for.Short 335.3 #449 10:20PM
Because.........you are a gentleman. You go out of your way to be kind. You go out of your way to make sure everyone is doing well. Beacuse you are just an all around awesome dude. - Butterlina
1307.8 #62 11:18PM
The Vinyl Whisperer is a wise one. - MimiMouse
1015.6 #87 11:42PM
So true!! Thanks for this 818! - Duchess_SMK
3282.5 #11 8:05PM
Very well said. Thank u. - ManBearPig
417.0 #309 8:08PM
Totally agree. Even if your shy, just be patient, you will make friends. I think patience is a key word here, no need to rush, just let friendships develop as they would anywhere else, and having a sense of humor and not jumping to conclusion is vital! I still consider myself to be fairly new and it has been a nice welcoming environment by following the have patience, humor, and don't jump to conclusions!!! - madsdad
1124.6 #73 8:10PM
I agree, I got kind of shy at the reunion. But still had a great time people watching lol. looking forward to making new friends :) - mamadisney3 249.1 #1018 8:30PM
So true but unfortunately I am still shy and nervous to meet Mousewaiters. - Cherry91
429.1 #291 8:10PM
You met me. You survived. Your odds are improving dramatically. - Experiment818 1598.0 #47 8:17PM
May the odds be ever in your favor - cesium55 529.7 #216 11:21PM
Do you like ariel/pandas/lumpia? You are my friend. - chris.
2507.3 #24 8:16PM
I love lumpias. I think pandas are cute. Um Ariel isn't my type but think she's awesome. Lol - mamadisney3 249.1 #1018 8:32PM
My first meet up, everyone was so nice! PrincessMacy and jeninwonderland came right on up to hug me, so welcomed! And HanlostLeia and thewifeakaleia were soooo sweet to me! And i can't ever forget LaTruce being mean and scaring me half to death on tower of terror lol so many great people I met that night that I can think of - AvidDisneyThrifter220
850.9 #107 8:57PM
E818, very well said. I was one of those extremely shy and nervous mw people. I posted this morning that I started out Friday at the Studio being a virtual wallflower and blossomed into one of the Whoop Whoop mw gang on Sunday. E818, you were extremely welcoming and everyone else I met was also. My life changed a bit over the weekend...all for the better. I will still be shy, but I had one of the best times I can remember with lots of new friends and hope to have many more to come. - snowwannab
355.0 #403 8:58PM
I was so not there :( darn - lina1990
120.9 #2713 9:12PM
I don't make it to the parks often (live pretty far away) but the few MWrs I have met have all been extremely kind, fun and welcoming to me and my family! I have enjoyed meeting every single one and I look forward to hopefully meeting more in the future! That was so awesome of you to host that studio meetup! 😊 - MinnieMousewife
570.3 #194 9:15PM
The only thing I worry about is walking up to a bunch of strangers whom I've only talked to online, and then not knowing what to say. I've always wanted to go to a meet up. I just never know what to talk about. lol - cheeselesspizza
209.6 #1497 9:23PM
Sometimes you just say Hi and listen. You'll see that you have stuff to add to the shenanigans. - Experiment818 1598.0 #47 9:25PM
LOL Exactly what E818 said! I didn't do a whole lot of talking my first few times, other than to introduce myself. But usually someone much more talkative and outgoing will get you chatting and out of your shell :) - DaisyBell 668.4 #155 9:38PM
Well put. I had a fabulous tour (thank you), and weekend. I'm a newer mousewaiter and haven't felt uncomfortable, or snubbed by anyone. Ever. Nicest group of people I've ever met. Yourself included. :) - tuesday737
1076.5 #78 9:38PM
I've still never been to an official meet up! :/. But! I've met quite a few MWers around the parks and they've all been super-duper awesome! - OCdrumGuy
549.0 #203 9:39PM
I'm actually hurt that Sean didn't say hi to me or give me a hug. I feel like a poor little black step child..😪 - disneygal
366.6 #379 9:40PM
I'm just quoting Randy Newman. - Experiment818 1598.0 #47 10:35PM
Can I get a clique-r? (They've got an emoji for a darn fax machine, but not one for a remote control??) - chrissykins
825.5 #111 9:55PM
I'm very shy, and I don't do well with crowds. It took a lot of courage for me to attend my first meet up (the San Jose one), and I'm glad I did. I met some great people. Hopefully, this will give me enough courage to go to meet ups when I'm at the parks. - robin_sparkles
293.8 #647 10:17PM
Agree! I think everyone is a bit nervous at their first couple of meetups (I was!) but folks are always so welcoming! I had a fabulous time at the tour,E818, and was so glad to finally meet you! - Gia
785.4 #120 10:33PM
I've spent my years in school struggling socially. Even outside of school, I found making friends to be somewhat difficult due to my shy, sometimes awkward nature and social anxieties. However, I have never in my life met a group of individuals that are like MWers. Yes... people have their established friendships but not one single person has come off as cold or unwelcoming that I've met at MW meet ups. Everyone is so warm and funny and caring. I think it's easy to try to want to jump in and be buddy-buddy instantly with everyone but my advice is to just take it slow. Attend meet ups and be yourself. I'm very fortunate to have joined this app and met the wonderful folks that I've met. - Aquata
292.2 #659 10:37PM
I'm so glad you are on here! You have it down perfectly, you just be yourself and are inviting to talk too, a great example! - madsdad 1124.6 #73 10:47PM
I love this post! I'm very shy at first, but I'm so excited for my first MW meet up. - PirateQueenBriezy
291.4 #661 10:50PM
I'm always shy. If I ever go to a meetup or something ill just hide in the back where no one can find me. - jon-t
188.9 #1762 11:03PM
I don't go to Disnylan as much as I'd like to but there have been times I've gone to Disneyland wanting to go to a meet-up but end up not going because I was too shy. This makes me feel a bit better for the time I go. Thx! - LovetoRunDisney
51.9 #3715 11:54PM
I'm shy... Who are you people? - LBChica
1500.3 #52 12:06AM