thanks for that! I think i may need to take a trip to DL solo next week lol make me feel better lol I think when one gets older they get comfortable and dont want change :( - Happybrandison  242.3 #1104 3:34PM

if i told yall what i have got him you all would pistol whip me! lol - Happybrandison  242.3 #1104 3:34PM

Oh, we'll now I want to know! - cynDOLEwhip  745.3 #138 4:06PM

I personally was horrid: Some things I can think of off the top of head: I bought him for his 21st birthday 21 different presents and did a scavenger hunt through out our city for each present last one being a 5 day cruise. Ha i took him on two cruses actually. Got him two disney passes, a tv, a tv stand, a portable dvd player, a new monitor for his computer, a xbox, who knows how many skate boards, brought him to countless punk shows, clothes, clothes, clothes, san fran twice, madonna in twice, and vegas 3 times..... NOW That i look back on it I LOL at my stupidity.... boy was living like a high roller on my dollar. - BooEve123  800.9 #121 4:10PM

Oh, Boo, you could have gotten your lanyards for all that! - cynDOLEwhip  745.3 #138 4:12PM

I could have gotten the MW community of unhappy lanyard gals all lanyards for that much lol! I was young and stupid. I am so thankful I got the courage to walk away. So hard to walk away from "norm" scary to think of the unknown but if you have faith in that change. 9 times out of 10 i say its worth the risk:) - BooEve123  800.9 #121 4:13PM

sounds like me lol i bought him a $1700 gaming computer, $900 in ps3 and games sent him $800 bought him numerous gaming headsets, video games, bought him two smart phones and paid for his service for 2.5 yrs sigh.... - Happybrandison  242.3 #1104 4:15PM

yep time to kick the dude out. Put on a smile and keep your head high for your new chapter in life. - BooEve123  800.9 #121 4:17PM

i guess your right i am in denial of him using me but today i think has shown me he is but it still makes me sad.... i invested 2yrs into him and thousands of $$$ - Happybrandison  242.3 #1104 3:27PM

2years is much better then 20! . It can be scary but in time you will feel much better - supertracy  435.6 #290 4:19PM

thanks i guess i was blind :( everyone i mean everyone even my ex warned me i didnt listen - Happybrandison  242.3 #1104 3:30PM

Love is blind at times.. - Addiction  55.3 #3698 3:54PM

thanks i am sure over time it will get less sad - Happybrandison  242.3 #1104 3:33PM

thanks spoon :) the weird thing is I am old enough to know better lol and after 2 yrs and all the money and excuses any normal person would have learned lol sigh thank god for such a wonderful group of people :) the funny thing is i feel more love from you guys who have never met me than i ever felt from him :( - Happybrandison  242.3 #1104 3:48PM

And you should write that last comment down on a piece of paper and read it whenever you feel compelled to talk to him again, lol! :) Be strong and think of DL when you feel blue, lol :) - Spoonful_O_Sugar  439.1 #288 3:54PM

true and a normal person would agree lol but sadly if you spend 2 yrs of your life invested emotionally and financially it is easier said than done he3 is making it easy saying he never wants to talk to me again because i wont get him his 45v inch tv sigh - Happybrandison  242.3 #1104 4:04PM

i may this week and finally meet some of you wonderful mwrs :) - Happybrandison  242.3 #1104 4:03PM