Just be honest and let them know how it makes you feel. Them talking about her is their way of coping so maybe talk to them about maybe after the kids are asleep it could be some time to talk. Also talk about taking the kids off to enjoy just you and them and let the parents stroll. Grief is hard and everyone has their own coping mechanisms so I pray for strength and happiness for you and yours. (Disclaimer: I am a student studying counseling and I am not a licensed counselor so this is my opinion not a professional statement) - minnieMisty  215.8 #1405 7:45AM

"so do I " - Bigchris  17.1 #5383 7:29AM

I am sorry for your loss. Do they Talk about missing her a lot only or about good memories? Let them know that you want to teach your kids that after some one we love passes away we don't have to be in sorrow but remember the good times. Let them know that you want to make it a day that they will have fun - Veronica21  167.9 #2038 7:37AM

For them, talking about her is their therapy. They just need it right now! Sorry for your loss. - islandRmand  42.7 #3923 7:50AM

I'm sorry for your loss, my moms sister passed a few years ago and I had to tell my mom to quit bringing her up whenever she talks to my cousins because the last thing those kids want to hear is sad stuff about their mom. I know it's hard losing a loved one, but it's not good to dwell, better to celebrate their life and be happy for the time you had together. Dont know if this helps, but it's my way. - MJisMM  31.0 #4334 7:55AM

Having lost a child, I know how much they NEED to talk. The have to keep the memories alive, that's ALL they have now. Try hard to be understanding, asking them not to talk may make them feel guilty and have them close off to you. Just be gentle. And ::::::hugs:::::: - JenAnneWho  300.7 #610 8:45AM

Thanx all - Bigchris  17.1 #5383 9:10AM

Maybe just tell them how you understand how they are feeling and would love to know what they have to say ... Just not in front of the kids. - tish  260.4 #910 9:17AM

Sorry about your family loss... I've found that most people do talk a lot about the special person they've lost to keep that spirit alive and I understand the concern you have about just wanting to enjoy your escape but I think when they're in the park they might not dwell as much as they could get caught up in the moment. They won't forget but they'll realize why and who they're there for, the grandkids. I wouldn't even bring it up but if they do lose focus give them some space and chat honestly about your reason for the trip. Hope all goes well and you/the family find your magic. - 559MickeyLover  266.9 #859 9:18AM

I think if you ask them only to talk about her with good memories around the kids they will understand. I too lost a daughter. She was 32. It was very hard for my grandson (he was very close to his aunt) at first, but I tried to never show my sorrow and only talked about the good and funny memories around him. It is a pain that never goes away, no matter what people try and tell you. It does get a little better, but never goes away, you just deal with it in a better way. - MinnieTat  303.3 #596 9:21AM