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259.5 #915 (DL Qual #1660)
September 2, 2011 6:02 PM
Have you all ever had your heart and mind tell you to do one thing yet family and friends want you to do another? What I am dealing with now could cause me to lose quite a few people in my life. It is so hard and I get so down sometimes. Decisions, decisions.
If I've learned anything it is that u and ur immediate family meaning husband and kids r the most important thing and u should always do what is right for u and them and yes it might hurt others but ur more important - stitchgurl
10.7 #6556 6:05PM
If your friends love you they will always love you. Go with what your heart feels and true friends will be there in the end. - GoofyJoe
1864.1 #41 6:07PM
Im going through something similar, i really feel you. Im going to trust my heart and stick it through. In the end, I believe only you can decide what is best for you... and that includes what makes you happy. - Mr. Fredrickson
120.4 #2733 6:12PM
And I agree with GoofyJoe :) - Mr. Fredrickson
120.4 #2733 6:13PM
In the long run, you have to do what is best for you - it will make you a better/happier person -- no one can fault you for that... :) - rdaann
274.2 #791 6:56PM
im sorry friend! im here if you need someone to listen. not sure if i will be able to help, but i am here. :) - Armenda
994.7 #89 7:19PM
GoofyJoe said it best. :) - Spoonful_O_Sugar
436.3 #285 7:27PM
I agree with all that has been said. If they love you they will accept because it's what makes you happy - DebbyMouse7531
228.8 #20 7:30PM
You have to go with your heart. Anything else will make you unhappy and that wouldn't be good for you or those closest to you. As goofyjoe said, your true friends will Love and support you no matter what. - VeloMouseGirl
549.7 #202 7:30PM
I feel ya. I've been soul searching since Monday, and it's eating me from the inside out. And I totally agree with all . It comes down to a true friend will understand, and listen, if not...they weren't a true friend to begin with. Just an imposter. But YOU have to decide what's best for you and your heart. Family and true friends are the ones who support you in your decision, NO MATTER WHAT! My goes out to you in your time of trial. *Hugs* - Disney-Danni
10.6 #6569 7:34PM
Do what I do screw everything else go with your gut feeling n dont worry bout anything else immediate family only : ) - Apprentice
275.8 #771 7:38PM
When I was about 19 (1970!!) I was in a relationship and everyone was trying to tell me what to do. I stayed with him for about 2 years and he was a cheater, etc. But you know what I could only blame myself and used it as a learning experience. Lost my best friend, got kicked out by my mom but I only blame me. So listen to your gut. If it is wrong learn from the experience. - sewgirl
340.5 #431 7:53PM
Thanks everyone! I know my post was kind of vague due to it not being lounge appropriate but I just needed to vent at least a little. I think I know what I need to do and now it's just a matter of doing it and letting things lye where they fall. It may be hard during this time but I think better off in the long run. Thanks again. - DisneyMomma
259.5 #915 8:45PM
One of the lessons my dad taught me was to always realistically look at the pros and cons of a decision. Understand the consequences of each. Then...go with your heart! Your true friends & family will respect you for that. Best of luck to you. - Gia
785.6 #121 8:53PM
Wish you the best! - Mr. Fredrickson
120.4 #2733 9:01PM
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