When you go to Disneyland, are you the leader of your group, organizing the route through the park, deciding what rides to go on, and planning FP schedule, etc? Or are you the go with the flow one, going wherever the group goes? I'm the bossy one telling everyone else what we're doing. =D
I would like to say I am suggesting what to do next, but as a group we just eventually go on our favorite rides one after another what ever is logical - TikiJOSEsWingman
329.5 #476 10:48AM
Sometimes I'm the bossy one and sometimes go with the flow. Depends on who I'm with - DebbyMouse7531
228.7 #20 10:48AM
Depends on who I'm with. If its just my family, then I'm in charge. If I'm with my CM friend, then I follow her and go with the flow. - disneyjuls
21.3 #4940 10:48AM
I am always the tour guide. Ok the word is bossy!! - Deltachiq
969.0 #90 10:49AM
When I'm with my family, they always look to me for planning the day. :) But when I'm with my fellow Disney lovers, we all just go with the flow! - Nyghtngale
547.8 #204 10:49AM
I haven't gone with anyone in ages. And even when I did it was with one other person. I'd do a day with my small group from church, but we usually split into a couple smaller groups & go with the flow. - ythdudette
340.0 #432 10:51AM
I play it by ear(s) lol - princessVanessa
382.5 #352 10:54AM
I'm definately the leader and boss othwise nothing would get done. Family member super procastinator and always changing her mind about things. - lindyanne
181.0 #1854 10:58AM
I am the total leader...=o) - iyuzMickey
509.7 #230 11:00AM
I always go with the flow. If someone suggest going on this ride or that ride, I just follow lol. - VivaHate88
154.0 #2242 11:02AM
I am most definitely the planner/leader lol :D - giovannathing1
5.2 #10175 11:02AM
When I an with the kids and grandkids then its the birthday kid who is the boss. In Sept when it's just me & hubby he will let me do it!! - sewgirl
340.5 #430 11:03AM
I know where all the bathrooms are therefore, leader. - scoot
279.0 #738 11:06AM
i usually go with the flow :) - PrincessMacy
503.0 #235 11:06AM
The only time I"m not the leader is if we're with our friends' kids. Kids don't care about schedule or wait times or FPs. They just want to go where they want to go. - Yoshi
257.2 #932 11:08AM
I'm usually the leader and create an itinerary for the week. In fact, that's what I'm doing right now! - LeDivaMouse
16.7 #5432 11:09AM
I just walk and they follow :) - Bassplayerswife
26.2 #4570 11:12AM
I'm the leader at DL only because I'm the only one that can remember where things are, and not get lost. As for choosing the rides, we're pretty democratic about that, taking turns well. The planning portion of actually GETTING to DL is all my ball of wax. I'm better at finding the best deals, researching the hotels, and putting stuff together. - Disney-Danni
10.6 #6565 11:12AM
I'm the one with the itinerary! - MinnieCarman
214.3 #1424 11:15AM
We let everyone pick their "favorite ride" first and then just go with the flow - Iyqtoo
212.8 #1447 11:17AM
I have the itinerary, but I'm flexible to changes. :) - mcarthy6
426.5 #298 11:17AM
If we go with Grandsons it is by negotiation if it's just us it's very free flowing - Tealtownfan
692.8 #144 11:17AM
I'm always the tour guide lol - RiRiBelle
7.4 #7937 11:20AM
I'm the bossy one too, but only cause I know better!! lol - adriz
187.5 #1780 12:14PM
Usually the leader. - MoonWillow
367.6 #377 12:15PM
I'm usually the one in charge of my group, but I'm sure my wife would disagree... - proudcanuck
476.4 #250 12:15PM
i am the plaid of my guests - NurseDisney
29.2 #4404 12:41PM
My mom calls me the Disney expert and makes me decide everything we do! That's perfectly ok with me though lol! When I go with my bf it's more of a mutual decision. - JessicaRabbit33
667.9 #156 12:42PM
I'm with NurseDisney....I'm the plaid....I know how to work it where we don't wait more than 25 min 30 max for any ride....My friends hate the walking everywhere but love the not waiting long hahahah - FrankyHLYWD
125.5 #2637 12:44PM
I'm the boss of me, myself & I so there's never any disagreement - DiznefanHi
286.2 #691 12:44PM
Yeah...well...i always Try to not lead...but it's the training! Lol. I can weave a group through a crowd like an expert ;) - PieRatAL
619.7 #176 12:54PM
im a go with the flow kind of person, my fiance wants to plan an intinerary - Armenda
993.6 #89 12:57PM
since i have an AP and can go whenever to do whatever I want, when I go with others, I tend to let them choose what they want to do, since they paid to go and all... - brit-brit
298.3 #616 12:59PM
I'm bossy only if they don't know what they want to do - Brently
233.7 #1188 1:00PM
I even noticed that after getting a pass I sleep in more and leave a little earlier at night. That part I don't like. - DisneyRose
240.8 #1103 1:14PM
My wife makes me lead. - Chumash28
764.0 #130 1:18PM
I'm totally bossy! I've got a guidebook with touring plans and I go with that a lot. Cuts way down on waiting times and makes more time for fun! Even though I always get lost at the back of Fantasyland. Oops! - Manawalea
9.6 #6882 1:19PM
I would say I am the leader, but nobody listens to me. So I just go with the flow. - MagicalCaprice
480.6 #248 1:20PM
Definetly the leader. Even on the days I try to be the go with the flow, everyone is always asking me about what we r doing. So u end up doing it regardless of if I want to or not.:) - ladybug33
8.0 #7584 1:21PM
i lead. sometimes it annoys people, but when we don't wait long for a ride they love me. - ministrychick77
276.1 #766 1:31PM
My wife takes the lead... Yeah! That's right... She leads... I drive the car and load the bags. - Blackbeard
3.5 #16771 1:34PM
I've been both depending on the group I'm with. - jjdq
326.7 #490 1:35PM
I lead with some astistance from my kids lol - MommyluvsCars
5.8 #9283 1:37PM
I go with the flow. Usually my kids pick which rides we are doing. FP are agreed on by family. - Arielkitten13
120.9 #2712 1:41PM
In the morning, I have a plan of attack. Get a fastpass for a long line attraction (i.e. Star Tours now that it's revamped). The rest of the day, I try to just go with the flow and take a very passive approach to planning my day. - TenSixths
18.3 #5232 1:43PM
I'm usually the speaker, but I don't boss lol. I'll ask what people want to do and we'll make a todo list. :) - OCdrumGuy
549.0 #203 1:58PM
I'm more the "suggester"; I'll ask "so where do we want to go now?" and suggest things I may want to do and/or things on our way to something else and see what the group says. But we decide as a group what we do; no one bosses anyone. ;-) - thisredheadistaken
243.3 #1068 2:24PM
I like to plan out certain events such as when to watch particular shows such as F!, but usually I like to go with the flow. Most of my trips have involved scattered days such as where my group will get off IASM and then decide walk over and get on Screamin', lol. - GoofyLove
56.4 #3626 2:45PM
I am the Leader..... - disneykdn
108.9 #2918 2:51PM
As my friends say I'm tour guide Barbie. So I do the planning but I usually let others choose rides - dnerd
293.8 #648 2:55PM
All these worlds are yours except Europa. Attempt no landing there. Use them together. Use them in peace. - Tom
3849.6 #7 2:58PM
@ Tom...Great book! As for our Disney schedule, my kids and I have it down to an art. - Bo22
331.1 #468 4:18PM
At Bo22, yes, one of my faves! Good movie too! - Tom
3849.6 #7 6:09PM
I am always the planner in my group. (That's why I had a short career as a travel agent.) But I have to say, I wish I could have a day off! - CollegeDisneyKnowledgeGrad
394.1 #6 6:27PM
Totally the planner in my group. I love it! - NurseKatey
325.5 #500 6:28PM
I'm always the leader of the group, but on my sons birthday I let him call every shot once we enter the park. - SplashMtn_Fan
487.2 #245 6:29PM
I have to be the leader cuz my bf always put me in charge - sweetnerdiheartmickey
252.2 #988 6:30PM
it depends... we pretty much take turns deciding on what we will do. - Pintraderswife
458.5 #265 6:30PM
I fly solo w/ my group. - ArdySarrafFan
242.1 #1088 6:32PM
Bossy!!! I'm the families Disney expert! - wonderlandgirl
325.6 #498 6:33PM
Yes I am the bossy one. I also make sure they drink water and reapply sunscreen. - Dizkid
284.2 #706 6:36PM
I'm never the boss, unless I go by myself - MarshaMouse
2835.7 #16 6:41PM
I'm the leader of the pack. The kids assist, but I make sure we hit all of our park goals. - kimimouse
14.8 #5711 10:23PM
Since I go anytime I can. When I am with a group I find out what everyone wants to do and figure out how to do it and let everyone have fun. It's a cross between go with the flow and bossy! - Boundin
425.0 #299 10:37PM
I'm the bossy one, or I'm by myself. I'm not sure what I would be in the future if I go with someone different (Not my family). - theDebsterM
138.2 #2472 10:38PM
Yeah that happens to me, my group always seem to make me leader....sometime I don't like it....but I guess they ask cuz I've been the one to work, and send a lot of time @ the park =) - ladyR2D2
9.5 #6916 10:55PM
I'm the organizer. I generally do all the planning and make all the reservations. I do make sure I have input from everyone who is going and I try to have them help with the desisions, but I usually make the choices. I have to have a plan or I feel disorganized and I start to worry, like right now, DH is making the hotel reservations, for our trip in October, instead of me and I'm panicking already. He doesn't have a clue between a King Suite and a Family Suite. - ColoradoMickey
534.9 #212 10:56PM