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213.1 #1473 (DL Qual #514)
July 27, 2011 3:32 AM
Why when snooping around you always find what you're looking for
From the Matrix - "Ignorance is bliss" but also one must remember "scientia potentia est" :-) - Sam241
475.6 #258 3:36AM
Sure is but how do you confront the person about it? Or do you let it slide? - PrincessTianaCM
213.1 #1473 3:39AM
Depends on what it is I guess. Is it something you can't live with? If it is then just ask them about it. - Sam241
475.6 #258 4:05AM
What's wrong, Tiana? I hope you're okay - BLG
1049.5 #84 4:59AM
You just do it. If you don't you will forever worry about it and it will bottle up. You will end up exploding at something small if you do hold it in - KissDclown
1088.4 #77 5:30AM
I had trust issues because of a 6 year relationship where I let myself get treated like garbage, cheated on, etc. That all ended 8 years ago but it effects you. it's been a long road realizing that just because one guy was a dirt bag, they aren't all. I hope what you found you are able to assess with a clear mind and ask yourself if this is behavior you want to see repeated. There are some amazing men and women out there that dont give their significant others any reason to doubt. I hope you're able to work it all out. Xo - LisaMouse7531
409.4 #325 5:35AM
Thanks a ton!!! I feel like crap right now and it's not a good feeling to be lied to while in a relationship for 3.5 years. After reading messages I found out he is basically embarrassed to tell his family about me and he uses derogatory names to refer to me (you can only guess) and all the times he said he was visiting family he was really partying and just so much more stuff that I had no idea about. - PrincessTianaCM
213.1 #1473 7:30AM
Sorry ((((PT)))). - PrincessDuckie
590.8 #190 7:31AM
I empathize.... My heart is with u now. I send strength, wisdom and ability your way. {{hug}} - fireflymom
60.4 #3624 7:36AM
Sorry to hear this. Dump the loser now he won't change - E-Ticket
776.7 #126 7:37AM
Sorry to hear that. This coming from a guy he is acting like a dumb . Sounds a little too immature for you. Agree with above comments. Don't bottle it up. - WeLoveDisneyland
413.1 #321 7:41AM
I am so sorry. Get rid of him. There is a guy out there who will treat you as the princess you are and he will come when you least expect him. - sewgirl
340.5 #444 7:50AM
Oh my--I'm sorry you had to read all that. Of course, you need to talk to him because it'll fester inside of you if you don't. You also need to decide if this behavior is something you can live with because you can't expect someone to change for you. Hugs and positive thoughts to you! - Spoonful_O_Sugar
439.1 #288 7:58AM
If he's using derogatory names to refer to you he does not respect you. He needs to go. I know 3.5 years is a long time but you do not deserve that. You are beautiful. Always remember that. - DizGeek
453.3 #273 8:00AM
Tiana, you are beautiful and if he's embarrassed to take you around his family he's a butt head. You deserve so much better, he should feel lucky to be with you but it doesn't really seem that way Keep your head up and keep smiling that beautiful smile. I hope everything works out and you will be happy - KAA
357.1 #408 8:17AM
Thank you all if you see me today in fantasyland please don't hesitate to give me a hug! Working from 4:45-12:30 - PrincessTianaCM
213.1 #1473 8:19AM
time to take out the trash!! Dump! You don't need that. And if you are still in doubt... Are you better off WITH him or WITHOUT? Be strong. A real man would *never* do that. *hands you a churro* - HandMeAChurroImmaFaint
1837.7 #43 8:21AM
Wow how disrespectful he is. Honey, you could do WAY BETTER!!!! Good luck and much hugs for you. Have a great day at work today! - Elaine
406.2 #330 8:26AM
I just can't but feel this was supposed to happen especially him leaving to pharmacy school in Connecticut this weekend...I just can't believe after so long that there was absolutely no trust or a solid foundation. If I posted everything I found out I'd probably write a novel and break the lounge lol! But thanks everyone for all your words of advice and for being so supportive. I know as soon as I get to work Disney magic will cheer me up! - PrincessTianaCM
213.1 #1473 8:34AM
You deserve better. Did he leave things for you to find out so you would break up with him first? Trust is a big thing. Time to move on. You have the power. Make plans before you confront him. Get your stuff etc.Let a friend know whats going on,
is he violent? If so, be careful. - Dizkid
284.3 #724 8:36AM
Sooo do you think you'll go snoopin around again? - toph
2406.7 #26 8:38AM
I'm so sorry to hear this. Talk to him and get it off your chest. It's not good to keep it bottled up inside. You deserve so much better and I know you'll make the right decision for you. You are a beautiful, strong, intelligent woman!!! Don't ever forget that. I really feel like going to the park tonight just to give you a hug!!! - WhatHappensInDisneyland
2201.9 #29 8:40AM
No I don't live with him thank God! He's not violent but after reading some of that stuff I have no idea of what he's capable of...hes a stranger now...I'm thinking during his usual morning phone call before work will be all I need then he's out of my life, aye back to the single game - PrincessTianaCM
213.1 #1473 8:41AM
PT....3.5 years really isn't that long. You're young as cliche as that sound but this is just a practice run. You're learning what you do and do not want in a relationship. You're too good of a person to be treated this way. You have us all for support. Feel free to txt me if you need to talk. - KissDclown
1088.4 #77 8:41AM
I am so sorry. I wish I knew what to say. But I know you do not need anyone that would ever hurt you - Tealtownfan
701.8 #145 8:43AM
Calling all Prince Neveen's out there...Tiana is here!!! - Elaine
406.2 #330 8:45AM
Good for you!! No one deserves that in a relationship!I went through something similar and was devastated after the break up, but looking back now I think what was I thinking dating this guy in the first place!? Enjoy single life for a bit, lean on good girlfriends, and have fun flirting with Cuties. The right guy will come along. - Nicole
380.2 #362 8:50AM
I am a guy and say dump him like a flat Coca Cola. You're old enough where you gotta start thinking life. That what you want to deal with for life? - HotDiggityDogDaddy
1112.4 #73 8:56AM
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