28.4 #6147 (DL Qual #6772

Jul 10, 2011 3:46 PM  Disneyland Talk Land
I'm so mad right now, I took my niece to disneyland last month for the first time and bought her her first pair of ears and I just found out that my sister in law got mad at her and ripped them apart since she knew how much they meant to her. I'm steaming right now. I can't believe she would do that.

Wow that is really harsh, she needs to grow up! - Leopardpixie  249.1 #1362 3:48PM
Yeah she does considering she's going to be 21 this year. - GonzalezCrew  28.4 #6147 3:49PM
Um...that's a little psycho. I'm so sorry to hear that. Maybe from now on niece leaves them at your house. - SorcererMky  306.1 #875 3:49PM
Good idea. She sounds abusive from this post though. Hope your niece is ok! - LillyBelle  77.1 #4002 3:53PM
You want me to send someone over to rough her up? Thats a horrible thing to do! - donnievegas  1132.7 #160 3:53PM
Omg, that's so sad! :( - DisneyRuthy  95.7 #3656 3:53PM
Thats gnarly... good thing you didnt buy her a gold necklace :/ - FearTheStache  5.8 #16394 3:55PM
Yeah she's pretty evil. My husband and I took them both last month and it was my nieces first time ever, she's 15 and was adopted by my mother in law so we wanted to take her and show her Disney. It was the only thing she took home and probably won't get back to Disneyland until she is an adult and takes herself. I feel like hurting my sister in law, I'm still in shock that she would do that since they pretend they are the nicest people. - GonzalezCrew  28.4 #6147 3:56PM
That is harsh such disrespect - cbeast  37.4 #5360 3:56PM
wow that's horrible! I hope your niece gets new ears!! :( - MinnieNikki  88.1 #3779 3:56PM
I used to take my friends boys and he would send the stuff we would buy them home with them and their mother would throw it away immediately so they no longer are allowed to take anything home from here...sad that kids cant enjoy special things sometimes! Hope you got pictures of her in them! Maybe you can purchase a second set that are identical and just keep them at your house and that way she will always have a pair from you and know that they are safe - yellowtonka  244.7 #1419 3:56PM
Wow.... that's a bit disturbing.. it's one thing to take them away if her daughter had done something wrong as a temporary punishment.. but to get mad at her and actually rip them a part? Hmmm.. I hope everything is ok and she replaces those ears for her.. - Tinkerbabe  49.2 #4816 3:58PM
Wow. That is so wrong. - SorcererMky  306.1 #875 4:00PM
thats horrible ! - DisneyByMarco  1406.9 #123 4:01PM
eeekk! That is really harsh! Sorry but i dont think any child deserves to get their treasure ripped up. - luvsariel  214.0 #1820 4:03PM
Hopefully they will still have the ears she had when I go back in january. I have pictures but to someone who was in a foster home for a while and had something special to them that was finally something of their own they meant more to her than anything else. Some people are so heartless. Someone took her to build a bear for her birthday and when she got home my mother in law needed a gift for a birthday party she was going to so she took it from her and gifted it to the other little girl. - GonzalezCrew  28.4 #6147 4:03PM
Sounds like my brother's ex-wife! - ima-pirateswife  745.0 #260 4:05PM
that is just, ugh. i can't even. what kind of ears did she have? - nicoleface  1752.6 #96 4:06PM
It's not her daughter but her niece as well and she won't replace them. My husband just found out and is going to go over there she won't replace them that's just the way she is so I feel like going and ripping her ears that we bought her. - GonzalezCrew  28.4 #6147 4:06PM
She had the rainbow zebra ears. I'm going to see if they sell them online. I feel so bad, she's been crying over it for a few days now but I just found out today. - GonzalezCrew  28.4 #6147 4:08PM
Wow, your they are really twisted. Did you take sil to dl? Because if so I'd never do that again. What a vicious person she is. - SorcererMky  306.1 #875 4:08PM
That is mental. And MIL took her gift and gave it to someone else??!!! They sound abusive. I don't know, something about this doesn't sit well with me. Its just wrong on so many levels. I'm quite worried for her. I hope all works out.  :( - DisneyFanZoe  1249.3 #135 4:08PM
I would totally take her ears.*Calls her a nonMW friendly word* - SorcererMky  306.1 #875 4:09PM
oh my gosh thats awful!!! - Spiderbeth  215.1 #1797 4:11PM
She should not be a mom - SUUZinOCretiredPLAID  1036.1 #177 4:11PM
Omg this story makes me so sad  my heart goes out to your niece..so sorry she's being treated that way. Nothing upsets me more than abuse of any kind towards kids and the elderly - TiggerBelle  515.6 #408 4:11PM
Don't bother go online I will drop by tomorrow and find her a pair. If you have a pic email it to.me at sorcerermky@ gmail.com did they have a name embroidered on them? If so let me know what it is. And if not ask her if she wants it embroidered now. I would if I were her. - SorcererMky  306.1 #875 4:11PM
That was mean! - PrincessMamiTan  58.8 #4459 4:13PM
That's way beyond acceptable punishment. I'm speechless right now. - HappyHaunt  41.9 #5125 4:14PM
That's not very nice but maybe she is more upset you took her for the first time & she didn't get to but yeah her just gonna be 21 explains a lot so sorry that's so not cool - mommy_likes_minnie  270.8 #1154 4:14PM
Wow she must know her daughter will always remember that. And hate her for it. - maxinerenton  422.7 #523 4:14PM
Give her a mean wedgie. - HotDiggityDogDaddy  1113.5 #163 4:16PM
@mlm you read the facts incorrectly. - SorcererMky  306.1 #875 4:16PM
That's crazy!!! Wow! - JaredMc  222.2 #1708 4:18PM
Wow that is so messed up and not right there is something seriously disturbed with that person - stitchlover714  3.3 #32504 4:19PM
Sorcerermky, I can send you a pic and I will pay you for them. I have my text set up on here. She isn't her daughter so she could care less if she hates her or not. She wouldn't be jealous if I took her because I took both of them since my twins wanted to go camping instead I gave them their tickets and paid the difference, fed her, bought her ears as well and she didn't have to pay for anything so there was nothing to be jealous about, just being an evil person. - GonzalezCrew  28.4 #6147 4:19PM
What a fool! Maybe she's jealous for not going to DL and for not getting Mickey ears! I too would be lit! - LAHaPpY13420  43.0 #5073 4:20PM
That's just it, she did go and got ears. - GonzalezCrew  28.4 #6147 4:21PM
- susieQzee  555.8 #366 4:22PM
This makes me sad. Not for your niece, and not for destroyed rainbow zebra ears, but for the person who's only recourse was to act this way to get her point across to a child. - susieQzee  555.8 #366 4:23PM
You don't have to pay me for them just email me a pic or post one here. And let me know what, if anything she wants embroidered. What you are describing is textbook emotional abuse and I can only hope that poor girl is smart enough to survive her living situation and not get twisted by the people around her. - SorcererMky  306.1 #875 4:23PM
SusieQzee, wow, that's a mean thing to say. - SorcererMky  306.1 #875 4:25PM
Yuck!  I can't believe a mom would do that to their child! - kyoto_sparkle  150.2 #2712 4:25PM
GC, so sorry about this. Sorcerermky, you've got a very kind heart. :) - Spoonful_O_Sugar  613.1 #331 4:26PM
Maybe u should get her new ears and keep them with u till she grows up(your sister in law that is lol) - lisaw  159.7 #2570 4:27PM
Hey gonzalescrew karma will be a bigger "b" to her so don't you worry about that!!!! that's just wrong I can't believe how someone could do that  - mommy_likes_minnie  270.8 #1154 4:28PM
Sounds like my family. Just remember to be there for her. That's not right no matter what happen! - Happyhaunt de-vil  236.1 #1519 4:29PM
@sorcerermky that is very nice of you!!! MW brings smiles to kids faces. @GC your sister in law is very heartless!! Why would anyone do something like that to a child!!! I'm very sorry and I hope that the new ears will help. - MsNick  55.7 #4556 4:30PM
That's awful! - Mrs.mouse  543.6 #376 4:31PM
That's so terrible!! I can't imagine anyone doing that! If there is anything she would like from The parks I'd be happy to pick something up from her! I'll be there wed thru sunday - ilovedisney77  37.6 #5350 4:32PM
That's pretty low of her to do that. Send some new ones asap. Address it to your niece in unmarked box. - bigpete  277.2 #1083 4:33PM
Sorcerermky is an awesome person and I know this is going to make her so happy. They treat her so bad and my husband is over there right now and going to bring up cps being called if things don't change asap. I will gladly bring her here if it means she can get out of there. I will email you the pic and her name is aurora. I can post the pic on here as well if you want. - GonzalezCrew  28.4 #6147 4:34PM
That breaks my heart to hear that. Some people are so cruel.  - MrsLightyear  160.4 #2560 4:35PM
As a foster parent I know how precious kids in placement consider their things. Im so sorry for your niece. It never ceases to amaze me how cruel people can be to each other, especially to children. Ill be praying for your family. - jimcricketmom  201.2 #1979 4:35PM
An email is probably easier so it doesn't get buried when people post other things. Oh my goodness she has a princess name and she is being treated like Cinderella. - SorcererMky  306.1 #875 4:36PM
It's mean of me to be sad? Ok, not following that line of logic when 25 others said the same thing. - susieQzee  555.8 #366 4:41PM
As a mom and teacher this really pi---- me off. So damaging. If anything is important to her let her keep it at your house so that doesnt happen again. I guess she isnt allowed to have anything nice for herself because other people destroy it or take it from her. Wrong on so many levels. Boo  - Dizkid  457.8 #474 4:41PM
This made me cry (tired Alyssa=Emotional Alyssa). I wish I had passes to DL, I would soo go buy her another pair and send them to you just so we could make sure she has the same ones... Ugh that's so sad!! I don't even know what to say!! I wish I could help!!!! - acpowers13  148.8 #2732 4:46PM
Nice parenting !!! - 1Princess3Princes  611.0 #333 4:52PM
That crosses the line - koopakid141  117.4 #3275 4:55PM
@ susieQzee you realize you juwt sympathized with an abuser against a victim right? You feel sorry NOT for her 15 year old adopted orphan niece whose ONLY prize possession was destroyed. You feel sorry for GC's psycho 21 year old sister in law. Because that is what you wrote. Feel free to go reread your post. - SorcererMky  306.1 #875 4:57PM
Karma...will make things right....cheers scrmky. - MeAndMy3Girls  183.3 #2210 4:57PM
Omg! That's horrible - FeralMatt  129.5 #3051 5:02PM
I'm confused. Your niece was taken to DL by you with who? Her sister? And her sister ripped up her ears? If she is adopted I would get the state involved and cps as well. However, I am not sure who ripped up the ears. - SupremeLeader  395.4 #568 5:04PM
I feel so bad for ur lil niece. My heart goes out to her and next time u take her and buy her ears, keep them at ur house then she can enjoy them with the person that means so much to her. - desiwuwu  133.6 #2988 5:07PM
That was so wrong of her to do that young lady didn't deserve that at all. I'm sorry if I'm reacting harshly but sometimes I'm in the same position and its the wirst feeling ever to carw about a child sooo much and then their parental figure harms them in ways that can last forever. My heart goes out to u and your husband that you may remain strong and can provide this child with strong role models that she needs. Thank god she has people like you and her husband looking out for her. - tinker433  5.8 #16427 5:08PM
Wow, SorcererMky. Perhaps YOU need to reread it. Am I sad for the niece? No, I hurt for her (as a teacher, I'm also a child advocate). Am I sad for a pair of formed plastic and felt ears? No, they can be replaced. What I *am* sad about is that the only way someone who is supposed to love this girl could get her point across was to destroy something the girl cherished. I don't know how to make that more clear to you. Maybe chalk this one up to the inability to read expressions through this digital format. - susieQzee  555.8 #366 5:11PM
Oh my gosh- I am so sorry - heather02  23.0 #6837 5:13PM
Sounds like the mother in law has something going on to. To take away your adopted daughter's bday gift and regift it?! That's just wrong. You adopt someone and make them feel special, not treat them like that. Why adopt at all then? - cesium55  531.8 #390 5:15PM
This post was hard for me... I'm a survier of abuse. My step father left bruises on me for the first time when I was 6. I had a bad dream and was having issues sleeping but they were about to have friends over and I was crying and wouldn't go to bed. The next day I was told to tell people I fell off my bike. It was the first of many lies. I wish I could go pick her up and let her stay with me. Please be there for her and everytime you talk to her make sure you tell her how special she is and she is worth so much. - Lifeguardmom  295.2 #940 5:17PM
@ SusieQzee you know what? I stand corrected. That is not how your initial post came across after I read it through the red haze of anger for this poor child. I agree we should chalk it up to emotions filtered poorly through a digital format and I will also apologize fo misinterpreting your words. That was unfair. - SorcererMky  306.1 #875 5:18PM
I know where you're coming from SM but Suuzie wasn't defending the sil. It sad that this persons world has been such that the felt that was their only way to make a point. It IS sad for the child. It is also sad for the adult. I'm a survivor of emotional abuse and I know his upbringing was a part of why he was how he was. Does that help make more sense? - JenAnneWho  300.7 #910 5:19PM
SorcererMky, it's all good! I say we split a Dole Whip over fireworks one day. :) - susieQzee  555.8 #366 5:21PM
That's not look at all - DisneyMM  116.0 #3306 5:21PM
Good job SorcererMky and Suze!! I'm so glad to see you two clear that up like civilized grownups. And cheers SorcererMky for getting her new ears! I'm so sorry to hear what you went through lifeguardmom and Jen. You two are strong women to share that with us. (((hugs))) to the little girl in you both that suffered. And (((hugs))) to the amazing women you both are now. - DisneyFanZoe  1249.3 #135 5:26PM
I ditto DFZ!! - mcarthy6  426.5 #517 5:28PM
That is Tragic & will stay w her forever! What kind of ears & what is her name? I am at Disney today & tomorrow. Happy to replace them for you. Heartbreaking! That mother needs a parenting class! - AllisonG  6.9 #14276 5:32PM
This hurts me to my soul. I pray that your niece can be removed from this hateful situation. I know all too well the pain and low self esteem childhood abuse causes. ((hugs)) - VeloMouseGirl  549.8 #371 5:37PM
@supremeleader, she and my sister in law were taken by myself and my husband with 3 of my kids since the other 2 didn't want to go. She is my niece by marriage but just the same as family .We went last month for my daughters fifth birthday so we took them with the two extra tickets, but her breaking the ears just happened recently and I just found out. Cps still be called as I have done it before to a friend of mine so my husband went over there to let them know what is going to happen. Like sorcerermky said, she had the name of a princess and is treated like cinderella if not worse so this is going to end. I am so glad I am part of MW who has nothing but caring people and Sorcerermky is an amazing person. I know this is going to make her so happy. - GonzalezCrew  28.4 #6147 5:39PM
Dig a hole and I'll take care of the rest. - Jan-ooooo  44.8 #4996 5:39PM
@ SusieQzee Deal! - SorcererMky  306.1 #875 5:47PM
Man, that's some bs, I really am sorry :-| But don't lower yourself to her level, in due time people get what they deserve. She can't go around thinking she can do and treat people however she wants without some type of consequence. - VivaHate88  154.0 #2654 5:55PM
Reading this post made my heart hurt how could she have done that to her sister that is unexceptable & then coming from a 21yr old..how childish can she be then for your MIL to do that to her as well take away a bear that was made just for your niece :'( if I could I would go over their & bring her home with me..I have 2 kids that would love her especially my daughter cause she has the same name of one of her favorite princesses..we don't have a big house but she would be loved..@ SorecererMky- you are so amazining high five to you for doing that for her :o) sending your nice lots of ((( Huds ))) - LovelyTiggerGirl  273.1 #1137 5:59PM
my mother in law is playing stupid and my sister in law is acting like the victim, they act like i just met them and don't know who they really are. - GonzalezCrew  28.4 #6147 6:28PM
Stay strong Gonzalezcrew!! I really hope you prevail through this. - tinker433  5.8 #16427 6:41PM
Yes, GC, stay strong and focused. I am so glad the little one has you and your husband in her life to be her advocate. - PrincessDuckie  904.9 #202 6:48PM
She is really scared right now because she told us. My mil and sil are in Indiana right now and left her with my other sil who really loves her, she cant even relax anymore since she knows my mil knows now. my husband told my father in law about cps being called and now i keep getting texts making excuses saying my other niece broke the ears and sister in law had nothing to do with it, uuuhh yeah right. She knows she is going to get in trouble for saying anything but you better believe we are going to be there when they get home to make sure nothing happens to her. - GonzalezCrew  28.4 #6147 7:05PM
Wow, she needs to grow up! - SJCSharkie  315.5 #822 7:07PM
Dude I work for cps... They should be called as that falls under emotional abuse :(...it breaks my heart to know that a parent could do something so mean to a little one :( - MouseketeerforShort  340.3 #703 7:10PM
I am having to "take a breath". No one deserves to have that happen, ever. - proudcanuck  478.6 #445 7:11PM
That is terrible. They do need to be reported for abuse. Who knows what else they are doing to her if she is that scared. My heart goes out to her cause no one should have to feel that way. - TheRealEvilQueen  25.1 #6513 7:22PM
That is just aweful!!!! - mimibee  344.3 #694 7:23PM
With regard to your mother & sister-in-law, human nature dictates the more arguments a person gives the guiltier they are. Be strong. Your instincts are not wrong. - 2ndStar2theRight  24.5 #6594 7:34PM
You can call child protective services But their ages are soo close and it could increase the hostilities - Plumiegirl  10135.2 #8 7:35PM
Plumie cps will be in the picture, I have 5 children of my own and I would never treat them that way no matter how stressed I am or how bad of a day I'm having, I've called cps on a friend before and 10 years later the kids are old enough to see that it was the best thing anyone did for them when their own family wouldn't step in and they thank me for it every time I see them. I just hate how they act stupid like they don't know what's going on and try to blame someone else. - GonzalezCrew  28.4 #6147 7:42PM
I'm so sorry. This is horrible. No one deserves to be treated that way! Especially your niece! I'm glad your being strong and stepping up for this girl that doesn't really get to have a voice. We all have your back here and will be with your through this. If you need someone to really vent to I have txt set up. I hope things get better. Hope you have a better night. ♥ - NeverlandTink  423.1 #522 7:51PM
Wow, she has some unresolved issues! Too sad. - People_Mover  24.1 #6665 12:02AM

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