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100.2 #3029 (DL Qual #1529)
March 14, 2011 7:55 PM
Hey mw'ers, not Disney related but I need some advice from good friends. With the single riders meetup coming up in a few weeks, what those a woman look for in a man, I mean I've been told numerous times that I'm "too nice". Is there such a thing as too nice? That's how most of my relationships have ended. Anyways, thanks for listening and your feedback would be much appreciated and hope to see a lot of you at the "single riders meetup"
I've heard girls say that about guys also. It's a ridiculious reason though. Stay how you are. If your "too nice" your in the right direction. - CxD_CM
518.6 #224 7:59PM
Love yourself, be open minded and kind. - LisaMouse7531
409.1 #317 8:00PM
There's a difference between being nice and being a pushover ... when I told a guy he was too nice is because he was a pushover - pintsize
287.8 #683 8:01PM
Don't change yourself just because some relationships failed. You will find that person that appreciates you for being "too nice." - KissDclown
1088.1 #77 8:02PM
and I highly suggest taking time off to learn about you and to love yourself. Be ok with just being with yourself :-) - KissDclown
1088.1 #77 8:03PM
There is no such thing as too nice. My hubby is the nicest guy I have ever met in my entire life!! And I would never leave him for being to nice. I think you just haven't met the right person for you. When you do, she will love how nice you are and appreciate it. My advice is just be you, that is the biggest turn on for me, someone real and not afraid to be themselves. - MrsFELIXTHECAT
284.5 #703 8:04PM
I dated a lot of bad boys but I married a nice guy. Nice guys don't really finish last. Just be yourself. Trying to change yourself for a relationship might work for a short time but it never does in the long haul. - kirsten!
144.8 #2370 8:04PM
Sorry man, happily married 16 years and I still don't know - Nickelnorm
101.4 #3019 8:05PM
Be confident, kind and yourself! Good luck. - Dumbomom
308.3 #569 8:06PM
Don't change who you are. What I think is intended most times when someone says that. Is maybe too passive, or weak minded. So a nice way to say that is "too nice"
That's just my opinion.
But dont worry about it. When the time is right you will find someone who "loves you just the way you are" just like the song says. - DisneyMomof6
4.6 #11444 8:07PM
Any girl who is worth your time will appreciate you for who you are. Most girls want a nice guy, but someone who is willing to stand his ground and be confident and proud of who he is. Just be yourself , and if you find that Yoyr compromising too much of who you are to make her happy, then its most likely not the right one - mistressgracey
36.8 #4108 8:07PM
Thanks everybody, I appreciate all the great advice, I knew I could count on mousewait :) - offroadmickey
100.2 #3029 8:13PM
Too nice????? Really??? I like nice girls... I dont want a girl that will give me a hard time... Just bee yourself (Aladdin) - DonaldMissingPants
296.2 #631 9:10PM
- PIRATADELCARIBE
94.0 #3099 9:19PM
There is no such thing as "too nice".
just don't be a push over. - mommamouse
4.8 #10802 9:20PM
I get told that sometimes too. But then other people think I'm a jerk. It's highly subjective. Me, I'd rather be "too nice" and happily single than "too mean" and constantly making my partner miserable. - eldamien
13.5 #5922 9:22PM
"Too nice" means you haven't stepped up and grabbed the reins when you needed to. Grow some pelotas man! - Marieeezy
588.9 #186 9:25PM
Too nice is good. If I guy is looking for someone other then someone "too nice" then they aren't looking for something real... They are looking for a non-emotional relationship. This coming from a guy who was a "too nice" guy for years, who was friends with the kinds of guys that wanted bad girls. Just be yourself; you will find someone that loves you for that. - DisneylandDreamin
361.6 #385 9:32PM
I meant to say girls. Girls who don't want a too nice guy* are not for you - DisneylandDreamin
361.6 #385 9:34PM
i met you at Daves birthday offroadmickey. You are very handsome and a sweet guy (you gave those tinkerbell spinners as RAKs). Just be yourself and you will be GREAT! And remember.... girls like a guy who can make them laugh. :) - DuffysJuju
627.4 #173 9:40PM
"you're too nice" can also mean "I'm just not that into you"... Because seriously how can someone be too nice?? I have used the "you're too nice" excuse on guys I'm not really interested in, and I've had it used on me... But eventually you find the person that is perfectly suited for your nice self good luck!! - Wubzy_311
11.2 #6421 9:41PM
@marieezy. Some girls like sorry but it's true and some like nice guys. You just have to find the ones that like the nice guys! - Momof2princesses
151.6 #2262 9:42PM
@tj, THANK YOU. There definitely is such a thing as too nice. It's just not as bad as you think. Nice is great and all but girls want more than that. When it comes to their other needs, may they be security or "magical," it's going to be the guy that can take charge. - Marieeezy
588.9 #186 9:42PM
Girls like horse dots? Yipeeeee!!!!!! - SplashTheHorseDot
129.2 #2591 9:43PM
Just for the record I like easy girls!!! - Rob512
755.1 #134 9:51PM
And ORM, since you have the nice quality down, all you need to do is break down the door of the cabin with your ax and unshaven face, and demand your woman! - Marieeezy
588.9 #186 9:55PM
Oooooh! - Marieeezy
588.9 #186 9:57PM
Lol - Momof2princesses
151.6 #2262 9:59PM
Lol guys, I really wouldn't consider myself being too nice, I am a nice guy but the thing is I'm old fashioned :) - offroadmickey
100.2 #3029 10:06PM
There is nothing wrong with being nice, although there is a line between being a nice person and being the person that people take advantage of. This is coming from experience, being the latter gets you nowhere and girls tend to not like that especially if it interferes with you relationship. There's nothing wrong with being a nice guy and I truly believe every girl wants to marry the nice guy, I know I do. That being said, I think the girls who broke up with you because you're "too nice" are not being honest. They probably think this is the easiest thing to say when breaking it off but it's not because it doesn't really tell anyone what was wrong. - JediStitch
429.7 #290 10:08PM
I don't like anything in the morning but I used to keep them around for a few days but then I had to give some others a chance - Rob512
755.1 #134 10:10PM
ORM I agree with Duffy, I've met u twice and you are handsome and sweet, with an outgoing personality. U have a lot to offer the right girl, and she will come along you'll see. everyone here has good words of advice :) - mistressgracey
36.8 #4108 10:11PM
DONT EVER let anyone tell you a girl doesn't like an "old fashion" guy! haha you have no idea how many girls want that in a guy...but then again this is my own opinion and from what my sorority sisters and I have agreed on...(hope my bf sees this haha!) - bren12
37.7 #4072 10:18PM
Hahahaha "pelotas!" - PIRATADELCARIBE
94.0 #3099 10:19PM
I know that When I was single I looked for a man who was willing to take initiative, nice guys are a must, you just have to not be a complete pushover, it's hard to relate to somebody who just agrees with EVERYTHING you say, just let them know what your opinion is. I hope this helps! - Tangled
11.2 #6423 10:26PM
Thank you again everybody for the wonderful advice, I'm so glad too call you all my friends :) - offroadmickey
100.2 #3029 12:12AM
Just be yourself!!!!!!!!!! Pretending to be something your not will come back to haunt you! - MedievalMickey
662.8 #157 12:24AM
Amen medievalmickey - offroadmickey
100.2 #3029 12:35AM
After all this " nice guy" stuff, I'm looking forward to meeting you offroadmickey. - MinnieJ
281.8 #720 12:37AM
I have met him and his mom they are both very nice - Mrsblue
692.4 #145 12:38AM
Same here Minnie :) - offroadmickey
100.2 #3029 11:08AM
If he treats his girlfriends anywhere as nice as he treats his mom they are in for a world of being spoiled! hee hee!!! I always heard the saying that a man will treat his wife like he treats his mother and ORM treats his mom like a queen! - DuffysJuju
627.4 #173 11:11AM
DuffysJuju speaks true. I think you just need to be patient, just so you dont get caught up with the wrong lady. - Redpaw
275.1 #776 6:51AM
Be yourself!!! If the lady does not appreciate your kindness...simply say NEXT!!! You deserve so much more!!! - CaptainJill
42.2 #3930 7:41AM
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