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108.8 #2915 DL Qual #0 8-25-10 8:51PM
Family... I really need your advice right now. I just found out that the guy who I really care for, his mom had just passed away yesterday of Cancer. This guy was someone I was seeing a while back, but stopped because he had personal issues he had to deal with. And, due to that, we Drifted spart so far to the point that he eventuAlly stopped talking to me. It's been a long time... And hearing about his mom's death made me break down into tears.  When i first met him it was around the time his mom got diagnosed with cancer, and I know the thought of it scared him of him losing his mom. Now, hearing about his death, I can only imagine what he may be feeling. I want to reach out to him and give him and his dad my condelences, but since it's been such a long time, would it be okay? Please help me. Despite everything, I still care for him so much. 
Yes! If you don't you will regret it and always be stuck with the "what if". - CharLovey  179.6 #1869 8-25-10 8:54PM Like  Reply
I don't see anything wrong with sending your condolences Mulannn. He may appreciate it very much.  - MimiMouse  1015.6 #87 8-25-10 8:56PM Like  Reply
I think he would appreciate your thoughts and prayers. - MinnieJ  281.8 #719 8-25-10 8:56PM Like  Reply
Definitely contact him. Depending on how comfortable you feel talking to him, at least send him a heartfelt condolences card. If you want to do more, if you're able to talk to him, tell him you can provide him and his dad with a meal as they are probably overwhelmed with grief and attending to business. In my experience that simple gesture has been most helpful to families. - Polkadobo  372.1 #369 8-25-10 9:02PM Like  Reply
I'm sure it will mean a lot if you did...you should at the very least send a card. - toph  2398.1 #25 8-25-10 9:08PM Like  Reply
With the deaths in my family. We received flowers and condolence cards. I appreciated the calls to offer help too. I really appreciate my brother's friends who did help us with my brother's affairs. - E-Ticket  771.7 #127 8-25-10 9:08PM Like  Reply
I would definitely send your condolences to him. I think he would appreciate that you are willing to support him, even though you guys drifted apart. - missingblackapinoatDL  236.8 #1141 8-25-10 9:23PM Like  Reply
I would call him if you are up to it. - Dizkid  284.2 #702 8-25-10 9:25PM Like  Reply
Actually he just stopped talking to me all together after a while when wd drifted and I never knew why. It hurt me for a long time, but I never stopped caring for him. I knew one major reason we drifted (or more him rather) was I knew he was worried about his mom, aside from family and financial problems. That's why I had to get an opinion. You guys have been the best to because I never felt you guys judge me and have been pretty understanding about everything. - Mulannn  108.8 #2915 8-25-10 9:40PM Like  Reply
Thank you guys as always for being there for me.  - Mulannn  108.8 #2915 8-25-10 10:14PM Like  Reply
Anytime Mulan. We're always here for you.  - Polkadobo  372.1 #369 8-25-10 10:16PM Like  Reply
I would totally call him. I think in times like this any support is nice - Disneybird  173.1 #1954 8-25-10 10:17PM Like  Reply
Yes you should send your condolances...reach out. If nothing else it will give your own heart some peace. - RoyannaF  376.6 #362 8-25-10 10:19PM Like  Reply
Yes!!!! I lost both parents by 27... It is nice to have that support when dealing with everything.... - Tataandbeyond  74.8 #3333 8-25-10 10:37PM Like  Reply
I would not want to hear from an ex, but a card is a nice way of letting him know that you care. - PieEyedMickey  296.6 #626 8-25-10 10:39PM Like  Reply

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